Showing posts with label career. Show all posts
Showing posts with label career. Show all posts

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Social media much? Your posts may hurt your career!

Some of you are going to get angry with me for this post.  That's ok.  This blog is just my opinion, so you can form your own and comment below, I would love to hear from you.

I have seen a lot on social media links especially Facebook over the past couple years and thought I would chime in with my 2 cents.  Be careful about your social media posts.  We have a tendency to combine work friends, family and personal friends on our posts and this is a dangerous thing.  Why?

All of us have our own opinions on religion and politics and just certain people in general.  Some of us are very vocal about it on social media.  I see posts about gossip, bashing of certain groups, people, races, sexual preference, whatever.  We also post wonderful photos of ourselves or others in some of the most unusual circumstances. We have the right to our opinion and our beliefs because this is America.  We have freedom of speech, right?  Yes, but please don't do it.  The world and how we all relate to it has changed.

People are going to form an opinion about you  based on what you post.  If you post something for a close friend or family member and a potential employer sees it and gets offended (photo or different viewpoint than yours) they are probably not going to hire you.  If you are a constant downer, always negative or hateful, its the same thing.  People want to see positive happy neutral stuff.  Nope - that's not the reality of life, but it IS the truth of the world of social media.  You are putting yourself out there - change the way you post. If you want to stay hire-able in your field, refrain from posting the other stuff.  Send a private message to someone, email them or pick up the phone.

We used to just add people to Facebook and other sites that we knew well, and that understood us well, but now many of us use it for networking and don't really know everyone on our social networks all that well.

I have my personal religious and political beliefs just like you do, but I never EVER post anything about them. I keep most of my posts happy and upbeat.  The negative stuff?  I just don't post it most of the time and if I do, its for a very limited time, and its just usually stuff about having a bad day or something.

Here is what happens.  You apply for a job, or a gig or whatever and that person looks at your social media posts and sees something negative you have posted where they have a different opinion or it just hits them the wrong way - guess what?  You don't get the job.  People will also form opinions about you that may not be fair, but they will.  I have looked at some of my friends posts and ended up "hiding them from my feed" because I didn't want to see the posts.  Or maybe they post 100 times a day - noone wants to see that either.

I am not saying you have to pretend your from Pleasantville, or be a total drone, but just think twice before you post.  Ask yourself, " Is it ok for everyone I want to do business with to see this?"

If you still want to do it, here is my suggestion, because I do this:  For Facebook, put everyone in "categories".  When you post, you can choose who (what category) sees the posts.  So, when I post photos of my cats, or family stuff, etc. many times I will post it to "Friends" or "Family", EXCEPT "Film Friends"  Or if I don't want to bore my family with my IMDb and blog posts, I will make the post view-able to "Film Friends" only.  This way, you can control who sees what, and you can see talk and post as freely as you like without the risk of losing work or offending the wrong people.

I did a little research, and I am not the only one with this opinion.  A few links I found with more info:

http://www.computerworld.com/s/article/9240493/What_Facebook_posts_will_keep_you_from_getting_hired

http://company.findlaw.com/press-center/2013/tips-for-managing-your-career-on-social-media.html

http://www.linkedin.com/today/post/article/20131011152603-2434720-world-s-greatest-social-media-advice

Just my 2 cents - keep it classy and lets all get working together!

PS - I deleted my Twitter account recently, so I left it off the below links this time.  Just TOO much social media for one gal!  :)

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Sunday, October 6, 2013

The Balancing Act

You found an art/career you love and you work at it - a LOT, because you love it.  Have you stopped to look back at your life to see what impact it is having on others?  Do you have peace and balance?

It's great to put everything you have into something to get yourself started - to get "out there", but as time goes by, have you noticed your impact on others?  On yourself?  Are you getting burned out?  Is this thing you love affecting your family and friends?

Its important when you take on any new adventure to evaluate what you want from it and put an appropriate amount of time and money towards it.  Its also just as important to re-evaluate things every now and again. How are things working out for you?  Are you meeting your goals?.  Whats next?  How is this new career or hobby affecting your personal life?  What changes do you need to make?

We are all in different places.  Some of us work full time and consider acting a part-time job (that's me). After almost 3 years of  burning the candle at both ends (full time job, part time job, family, friends, classes, film, commercials)  I realized I was tired.  My family was tired.  Are you affecting your relationships?  I still LOVE what I do!  Yikes. So, what's the next step?

This is a good time to ask others in your life how your choices are affecting them.  Don't ask them if they support you, of course they do - your happy and they want you to be happy.  But do ask them if your choices are negatively affecting them in any way.  Have them be 100% honest. If so, its time to re-evaluate. I came to this fork in the road and had to drop a few things off my plate.  I dropped a lot of my film projects. I no longer have an agent so I don't feel pressured to audition when I don't have time, and I don't apply for every job, just because it's paid.

What I needed was most of my weekends back, so I did what it took and I got them back.  It was pretty easy actually, I just had to take the first step.  Yes, I disappointed a few people at first, but they understood. The more important thing is -- I have found balance in my life, I am happier and I have found my peace. I encourage you to do the same.  Find your peace, find your balance.

Wishing all of you the very best in your art and your career.  Nameste....


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